Howdy,
Are you looking for -
Is it supported?
or just
Will it work?
Supported is dead easy as that is solely the parts that are listed on the quickspecs or datasheets of the particular products. Ask your local Partner or HPE presales for clarification if there are any niche cases. Sometimes you might be pressed into going with optics and seperate cables even though there is a completely suitable DAC or AOC just because of the support aspect
For "will it work" - The Provision / Aruba-OS switches have been a flat "no" for third party Optics and twin-ax for years. Although in the last month or so I believe that the OS has opened up enough to tollerate non-HPE peripherals. Look at the release notes for any of the 16.02 code and make sure i'm not pulling your leg.
Comware will work with loads of things that you plug in. At worst the syslog will be full of regular complaints, you may wish to filter / supress SNMP to stop your alert logging getting stuffed with messages.
Altoline - I supose that is as much to do with the OS that you put on the ODIE switch as the switch itself. Check the quickspecs.
Arista - don't know - still catching up on that news!
For SAN check out the HPE SPOCK (you may need your HPE passport) for the ultimate SAN connectivity matrix.
For Ethernet - standard NICs should be fine. Different HPE NICs will have different capabilities - if you need any special capability like FCoE or iSCSI offload - again refer back to the SPOCK for what has been tested as a "solution".
I hope that gives you some ideas.
Thanks
Ian