OK, I will answer myself (for completness)
5900AF-48XG-4QSFP+ can only be used for iSCSI (so any adapted copper or optic can be used)
It does NOT have FC native mode (it would need to be 5900CP flavour)
So choices are:
- use Dell ME4024 as iSCSI target utilizing 5900AF-48XG-4QSFP+
- DITCH idea of using 5900AF-48XG-4QSFP+ and get FC SAN switches (like at least 8Gb Brocade 300) and FC cards, at least 8Gb QLE2562 and have SAN setup in native FC flavour
I cannot afford to add 5900CP 48XG 4QSFP+ (JG838A)
From various reads 8Gb FC is "quicker" than 10Gb iSCSI and is definitely making storage network separate (which means I can update firmware in IRF 5900 stack WITHOUT need to turn everything off)