using fiber clashes with the requirements of the "Intel® 10 Gigabit AF DA Dual Port Server Adapter" where the doc's say :
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Cabling
â ¢ SFP+ direct attached cable (twinaxial) only
â ¢ Other SFP+ optics are not allowed
and cannot be used with this adapter
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So both systems have there own demands.
You may be able to connect indirectly with a 10G switch in between that accepts both direct attached cables.
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the Intel 10 Gigabit AF DA Dual Port Server Adapter provides direct attach copper
twinaxial cable connections between servers and a top-of-rack switch.
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