What status page are you talking about?
Please show output of: show trunk, show lacp, show int brief.
Here is the help for active/passive:
ProCurve Switch 3500yl-48G(eth-1)# lacp passive help
Usage: [no] lacp [active|passive]
Description: Define whether LACP is enabled on the port, and whether it is in
active or passive mode when enabled.
When LACP is enabled and active, the port will both send LACP
packets and listen to them.
When LACP is enabled and passive, the port will send LACP packets
only if it is spoken to.
When LACP is disabled, the port will ignore LACP packets.
If 'lacp' command is issued without a mode parameter, 'active' is
assumed.
With 'no lacp' the mode parameter is not allowed.
This is an Interface context command. It can be called directly
from the interface context or follow the 'interface [ethernet]
PORT-LIST' command.
Obviously, if you set both sides to "passive", trunk will not form. Either both active or one active the other one passive.
Hope this helps,
Olaf